If you don’t love…

I deeply love sexuality in all its wonderful forms, variations and expressions. If you don’t love sex, you have a severe problem: you definitely don’t love life itself.

Maybe…

“Maybe God isn’t the sex police. Sometimes I think Christians get all hung up on the sex thing because it is easier to worry about sex than to ask yourself, Am I a good person? If as long as you don’t have sex with a lot of people you’re a good person, that’s easy. It’s easy to avoid that. It’s easy to thinkg, I’m not fucking anyone, so I’m good. It makes it easy to be cruel, because as long as you’re not fucking around, nothing you do can be that bad. Is that really all you think of God? Is he just the sex police…? Or is it that sex is easy to worry about, easy to avoid, and the whole love-your-neigbor-as-you-love-yourself think that’s hard?”

- Anita Blake-
main character from Anita Blake series,
author: Laurell K. Hamilton

Are we sexual or not?

What is our true nature when we look at sexuality open-minded?

Thinking about it I realize this is some sort of a really good question. The reason why this is an area which interests me in such a manner is my huge curiosity on the natural processes of life and what they mean to us.

So some years ago I came up with a growing curiosity about the core of the experience of sexuality, thinking about my own experiences, the conversations with others and all the stuff from my environment that influenced me. From my early days I knew that there was something “wrong” with all the views and the way people behaved, but this has been more a permanent unconscious feeling rather than knowing what it definitely is. I got more and more curious and started researching and thinking on it in depth, which lead me to all kinds of conclusions and revealed such a big misunderstanding of sexuality in general, that this newly acquired insights cleared some essential road blocks for me and gave me a higher level of awareness on sexual experience and its meaning.

So after I have done so many research, thinking, learning and going through a lot of trial and error periods, I reached to point to decide on putting my thoughts and insights together and publish a book on the true freedom of sexuality, which is directly linked to the freedom of expression and experience and thus to the experience of our human existence. The main area which interests me most and which I want to cover is female sexuality, because this is an area where most misconception and false views have been put on.

While I am in the midst of the process putting down the material and writing the book, I’d like to share some of my thoughts and insights with you. This will be a very open-minded journey, so be prepared that regardless of social conditioning all topics will be discussed on a natural basis and on the fundament of true alignment with yourself.

We are sexual beings and society conditions us, especially women, to consider ourselves most of the time as asexual - this is a critical mistake in our experience of ourselves and our true core and leads to most of the problems in every form of relationship we have today.

Like one of my mentors said: Sexual energy is pure ife energy, and when you cut it off regardless of the degree, you cut off your life.

Think about it.